How do I give this guy a chance?? am scared:(?

tell him u wanna take things slow... if the guys wanting a reply to his questions & ur not sure or dont believe it.. then simply say "prove it" in a playful banter so u dont upset him... if need be explain to him that ur not gonna jump in bed with him & u say u want it proven to u cuz uve been screwed over several times before & its all talk to u now... if u really like the guy then be honest... & everyone flirts & is normal to talk about, no biggie... if u cant talk bout , how can u do it?! lol